Last night, MTV premiered their reality show on pregnant and parenting teens called "16 & Pregnant." I watched it, and for the most part, I felt it accurately depicted the struggles that young people face when they experience a pregnancy.
I found similarities in the my story and the story of the first young lady featured, Maci. A prevailing theme in her episode was the struggle to hold on to her relationship with her baby's father. I remember enduring that same struggle even though deep down I knew it wasn't a good situation for me, and it wouldn't last. Any serious relationship is hard to let go of, but one that it involves a child is even more difficult. Maci -- who describes herself as an "over-achiever" -- is also going to college (she graduated early from high school) and is working part-time. She reminded me of myself, and so many of the young women I meet in my travels, who are determined to make a good life for themselves and their children. It was really comforting not to see the stereotype of a lazy, unmotivated teenage mother being perpetuated.
At the same time, I think the first episode also shows the tremendous difficulties of raising a baby at a young age. Maci -- and everyone involved in her life -- is feeling the challenges and stress that it can cause. It really speaks to the importance of preventing teenage pregnancy. The best time to raise a child is when you're emotionally, developmentally, and financially ready.
We'll have to see what the rest of the season has in store, but I think it's worth watching. For more information on the series, click here.
Nicole
Friday, June 12, 2009
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I watched the first episode and was blown away. It speaks to having a baby period- married, unmarried, teen, adult... bringing a baby into this world brings upon a heap of responsibility. I'm looking forward to the season although I have a feeling it will be short lived. Sadly, too "real" life is gonna scare away viewers.
I wonder the same thing - how long will it last? I was in touch with the producers during pre-production, and I think there needs to be more to the show than just following these teens around. I'd like to see some efforts to help them and a larger discussion of the issue.
I haven't seen it yet but hope to catch it tomorrow. Just the idea of the show makes me feel like it won't last long. The reality, although frightening does scare people. Then the teenage girls that need to watch it may be restricted from viewing it by their parents because the parents may think that the show is condoning early pregnancy.
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